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Talk & Touch...

Liberate your mind … and your body will follow.

The aim is your erotic empowerment. Gimmicky phrase? Being empowered to identify and enjoy the multitude of ways you can feel erotically alive in your body, your mind, and in your relationships, is hardly a gimmick.  It's a desired state of being.  Whether you are in a couple or single, the first step begins with Self.  In Talk & Touch we work with your whole mind/body circuit.  And because the sessions are pleasure based, you can be sure this is learning at its most fun!

Overcoming sexual blocks or concerns, relational issues, practical information on enhancement of sexual skills and techniques may be but some of the avenues we pursue during Talk.

Then we'll turn our attention to your body for Touch.  Here,  sensual touch and breathwork will make that all important reconnect between your body and your mind. In most cases you will experience the basic DFT full body massage, but if we’re focused on specific issues that require related exercises or training (such as ejaculation control) we may modify the bodywork for that session.

The initial Talk & Touch session is two hours long with follow up sessions at 90 min.  Longer sessions are available upon request, particularly for those who do not live locally.  Series are encouraged for best results, but single sessions are acceptable.

Personal Pleasure Mapping is particularly helpful in freeing the mind as well as accelerating the process of getting to know your body and its capacity for pleasure. 

Wondering where to start?  Select a link on the right side of the page for some ideas.

 

Men  [top]

Feeling sexually alive goes to the very core of a man’s self esteem. In a safe and confidential environment here’s your chance to open up.  No judgments; no subject matter taboo. A partial listing of issues you may wish to address:

 

Women  [top]

In general, women are the gatekeepers to sex. As the gatekeepers, we are taught to say "no!" so often that when we want to say "yes!" we may not make a smooth transition. Feeling more is absolutely possible. Some of it is technique, but much of it is mental – the attitudes toward the body and pleasure. A partial listing of issues you may wish to address on the journey to cultivating and freeing your inner Yes!

 

Couples  [top]

Intimate passion is not only about pleasure - it’s a powerful form of communication and it deepens your connections. It is that important. To advance, enhance or kick start your sex life, sessions may include a focus on:

It is generally advisable to work in individual sessions while creating your own Personal Pleasure Map. Once complete, we move to sessions with both partners.

 

Small Groups/Workshops  [top]

To be announced.




Talk & Touch Testimonials  [top]

My objective in seeing Victoria was to learn "Ejaculation Control" skills. Believe me, I  made the right choice.  I learned this through her "Talk & Touch" session.  Improvements started at the first session!  I was also given some exercises for home which also helped in slowly my building confidence.  If you have similar concerns I would recommend Victoria any day.
-AR, 33, UK
 
Thanks for your help last week.  My husband and I wrote and recorded a new song (music is one of the things that brought us together years ago) inspired by the (sexy) online shopping you recommended and our visits with you!  If it interests you, here's the link to our new "video!"
-L & M, 40, France

Thanks so much for the Personal Pleasure Map  - and for everything else.  Talking with you was such a huge help.  Our sessions really helped me to feel more normal and a more in control of - and hopeful about - my love life.  Following your suggestions,  I have an appointment with a new OB/GYN (I'll be grilling him about menopause) and with my regular doctor to talk about food sensitivities.
My husband is quite happy with the feather and massage oils and my newly-acquired massage skills.     I'm still working on my breathing, but I actually had an orgasm much faster than usual using the breathing techniques.  And I find it helps when I'm stuck in traffic.  It's very calming.  :)       Thanks again!
-(Ms.) F,  44  , California

I have just landed back in the UK but only my body is on the ground as my senses are still up on cloud nine!  Thank you so much for opening up your gift of touch and communication. I was really nervous when I arrived but you spend the time to put me at ease. I came to you because my relationship with my wife has been lacking, in particular sexually. What I have discovered is that the answers are in my hands, quite literally and I feel a new confidence to take the lead with some new skills. I will be back to see you again and who knows next time it could be the two of us!    Thanks for a truly unforgettable experience.
- B, 45, UK

You should win an award for "truth in advertising" !! Everything you said that would happen..did..and much more.  I never expected my body to have such capacity for pleasure.  After our first session, I tingled for 24 hours and wanted to immediately return for another session. However, my body's new sense of pleasure was only the beginning of the affect of our sessions. I connected to you right away - not an easy thing for me - and after my series of 3 Talk and Touch sessions, my outlook on life and myself was altered. For the first time in my life, I started feeling feminine. I had always felt intelligent and proud of my career success... however, I had never felt feminine or sexy.  My new "energy" is drivng me to try new things I never would have thought possible and I am already showing the world a happier and more open me.
-(Ms.) S, 60, USA

My goal in contacting Victoria was to improve ejaculation control, work on mind blocks and gain in self-esteem and confidence as a man.   I chose the Talk & Touch sessions so that we could address intellectual, emotional and physical issues.  Doing so I was able to express with words my concerns, fears, wishes and questions as well as focus on the physical through exercises and her bodywork, plus the “homework” she assigned me.   This work is not only a great help to me, but delightful to experience.  After just a few sessions, I already have much better control, feel much more confident, broke several false beliefs I had and, surprisingly, discovered the importance of communicating what I felt. And the massage is just a fantastic tool to do this!! Victoria's hands are really magic!
-J, 33, France

I’ve had sensual massages in the past but this Talk & Touch experience was completely different. What I hadn’t expected was that the coaching portion – basically talking – would affect me physically, and the massage would also affect me psychologically. The two of them together left me feeling rebalanced and opened up in a way I had never experienced before, and the effect lasted a long time. You are a very intuitive woman, and you instinctively seem to understand the best combination of physical and coaching techniques to use for your clients.
–R, 50, UK

Your approach is fantastic. You’re really onto something big. I want to bottle you up and sell you and be the next Bill Gates.
–B, 45, USA

For the first time in years I feel lighter and more at ease in myself. I can really see how the Talk & Touch aspects of the coaching are complimentary – and extremely effective. Worth every penny.
-M, 58, UK

I’m so uncomfortable in my body and the subject of sex. I feel like it’s a dark cloud that hangs over everything I do. I have no one to talk to about this stuff. By the end of the Talk portion of our session, I felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. As for the Touch, well, the massage was fantastic. I’d never felt anything like that before. Your touch... your intention... is very powerful. It’s eroticism to the max. What a life changing session.
–S, 22, USA

Our coaching session inspired me. Both the Talk & Touch taught me something that I can take home and use in my marriage.
–J, 33, USA

Every now and then in life you meet someone truly special. Victoria is one of those people. Not only is she a wonderful, caring and thoughtful human being, she has a gift for communications in the art of human sexuality and intimacy. My wife and I met Victoria last summer and have benefited immensely from her teaching, conversation and the sensual massage for my wife. We spent part of an afternoon with her and have continuing benefits from that visit. When we visit Paris next we will be sure to spend time with Victoria. We found her to be fun, funny and someone with whom sometimes difficult subjects become quite easy to discuss. We endorse her and her approach 100%.
-G&L, 45, USA

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